Connect

Connect is the screen where you deal with one specific community member. It shows where they are, how far your bond has come, and which actions are open to you right now.

Opening Connect

  1. Open the other member's profile.
  2. Tap Connect, next to the follow button.

What the screen shows

At the top you see both avatars and the stage your bond has reached. Below them a banner says where the other person is: at the same venue as you, elsewhere in your city, at home, travelling, or in another city. Send Message works from anywhere; the relationship actions below it usually do not.

Getting to the same place

Almost every relationship action needs you both at the same venue, so the banner carries the shortcut. Go to them moves you to their venue inside your city; Travel opens the travel screen when they are in another city. If you are busy with your own venue action, BeMatrx asks first — going cuts it short. While you are travelling you cannot move at all.

The actions

Actions are grouped into stages, starting at Stranger. Each stage has friendly options and hostile ones, and only the stage you have reached is fully open; the next appears as a locked preview. The romantic track, Closeness, runs separately: only your own actions raise your own heart, so interest can stay one-sided for a while.

Why an action is locked

  • Not together — you are not at the same venue.
  • They're busy — the other person is mid-action.
  • Daily limit — 3 relationship actions per person per 24 hours.
  • Cooldown — the same action waits from 4 hours in the early stages up to 24 hours in the last one.
  • Stage requirement — a friendship level is needed, and from Stage 2 onwards both sides need it. The note under the stage shows the exact number.
  • Ghost Mode — relationship actions are off while Ghost Mode is on.

Money, items and a bed for the night

Send Money and Give Item unlock when you both reach friendship level 12; money leaves your bank balance right away. At the same venue an item is handed over on the spot; from a distance the button becomes Ship item — free shipping in 12 to 24 hours, Jet Cargo in 1 hour for 50 BeCoin. If they own a home, a request to stay the night appears once you both reach friendship level 20. Some of these controls only appear after a while in BeMatrx.

Reporting or blocking from here

The "..." button in the top right holds Report User and Block user — no need to open a chat first. For what the friendship, love and hate values mean and how to end a bond, see About relationships and connections.

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